Mad Black Virgin

I have to ask Lil… I’m a 34-year old virgin and have been left at tables on dates after sharing that I’m waiting until marriage. I’m not implying that that him and I are getting married, I just want him to know that he aint getting none. When do you suggest ...


Friend Zoned

I have to Ask Lil… So… I’m single and I have been since May 1985. Yep, I’ve never had a boyfriend. I know I’m not an unattractive woman, I’m not boring and people are naturally drawn to me because of my sanguine temperament, but, I can’t ever meet a guy ...


His Home for the Holidays

I need to Ask Lil… I’m 33, and I’ve been dating this guy for 5 months. He’s mentioned that he’s flying home to Detroit for Thanksgiving but he hasn’t asked me to join him yet. Is this a red flag? Should I be offended that he hasn’t asked me or am I moving too fast? I ...